The Four-date Rule

Four dates. Apparently. That’s how long a girl should wait before having sex with a guy she’s dating. Wait wasn’t that Mila Kunis’s magic number too, in ‘Friends with Benefits’?   No, this is not a statistic or average that Cosmo magazine came up with in their most recent publication, but instead Maverick’s average wait time. … Continue reading The Four-date Rule

Baby Got Back… But Should Specific Body Features, Be A Fashion Statement?

‘I like big butts and I cannot lie’, I know, that’s song is in your head now, isn’t it?! #sorrynotsorry. I do like big butts. Not in the way that the song dictates, but due to the fact that society is fast embracing a woman with curves. Specifically, a woman with a bum. A societal … Continue reading Baby Got Back… But Should Specific Body Features, Be A Fashion Statement?

The Circle: An Almost Crude Explanation of Our Societal Future

Last Saturday night was one I spent very much at home on the sofa. Having had a busy few weeks and an... eventful Friday night out with my sister and cousin, Saturday night was for staying in. Gladly so too. I took this rare opportunity not to catch up on the first episode of this … Continue reading The Circle: An Almost Crude Explanation of Our Societal Future

It’s a Numbers Game

Readers, I am currently writing to you from a rather gloriously sunny beach on the Island of Pag in Croatia. A remixed version of Ed Sheeran's Shape of You is blasting through the sound system of Aquarius club on this interesting party Island, and after a week at Fresh Island Festival, I have a few … Continue reading It’s a Numbers Game

A Letter To The Broken-hearted

Hey you, yes you. I know you are hurting, and you are allowed to. It’s come as a shock; it has to us all. I just want to ask one thing of you, please don’t ever let this change you for the worse. You are a beautiful person, every part of you is. It’s your … Continue reading A Letter To The Broken-hearted

They Do Still Exist You Know, The Decent Ones I Mean, But Ladies, We Aren’t Entirely Blameless Either…

The blog I posted last week, while not anything to do with dating and relationships, surprisingly got a lot of traffic - marginal humble brag, yes I know - however it also sent a lot of people to a few of the dating and relationships posts, and onto contacting me about how they were being … Continue reading They Do Still Exist You Know, The Decent Ones I Mean, But Ladies, We Aren’t Entirely Blameless Either…

Thank You Mr Uber Driver, For Commenting On The Size Of My Body – And Not In A Good Way… 

I went out Friday night. Partying the night away, my friends and I were out until the wee small hours of the morning, which is pretty standard for us on a night out. Cut to home-time, and its time to order an Uber (after a trip to McDonald's - obviously). I catch my Uber, but … Continue reading Thank You Mr Uber Driver, For Commenting On The Size Of My Body – And Not In A Good Way… 

Should I Take A Leap Of Faith And Ask Him Out?

I am a massive believer in female empowerment and women making the first move. I am. I’ve said this before, and providing we are willing to take the guy out, then I think more women should be inclined to do the asking. However, as I frequently do when I am in a situation when it … Continue reading Should I Take A Leap Of Faith And Ask Him Out?

Book Thoughts – Eat. Pray. Love.

Have you ever heard of Eat, Pray, Love? Now I clearly missed the bandwagon in 2006 and then again in 2010 when the film came out. It wasn’t even as if I was dragged along by it, and I got to jump on eventually, but rather that I just straight up overslept and missed my … Continue reading Book Thoughts – Eat. Pray. Love.