It’s a Numbers Game

Readers, I am currently writing to you from a rather gloriously sunny beach on the Island of Pag in Croatia. A remixed version of Ed Sheeran's Shape of You is blasting through the sound system of Aquarius club on this interesting party Island, and after a week at Fresh Island Festival, I have a few … Continue reading It’s a Numbers Game

Enlightened… A Change in My Date Game…

‘We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.’ – Buddha. I believe that the universe sends us signals, if of course we are entirely open to them, or at least willing to take notice of the pattern of events … Continue reading Enlightened… A Change in My Date Game…

Who Pays? Let’s See Shall We…

I get this question all the time from people. It's a confusing one, especially within the 21st century and the desire for a woman to be all things equal to a man... Maverick and I have had this conversation quite a bit, and it's a common pet peeve of his - and many a guy … Continue reading Who Pays? Let’s See Shall We…

A Letter To The Broken-hearted

Hey you, yes you. I know you are hurting, and you are allowed to. It’s come as a shock; it has to us all. I just want to ask one thing of you, please don’t ever let this change you for the worse. You are a beautiful person, every part of you is. It’s your … Continue reading A Letter To The Broken-hearted

They Do Still Exist You Know, The Decent Ones I Mean, But Ladies, We Aren’t Entirely Blameless Either…

The blog I posted last week, while not anything to do with dating and relationships, surprisingly got a lot of traffic - marginal humble brag, yes I know - however it also sent a lot of people to a few of the dating and relationships posts, and onto contacting me about how they were being … Continue reading They Do Still Exist You Know, The Decent Ones I Mean, But Ladies, We Aren’t Entirely Blameless Either…

Unrequited Love – ‘But He Doesn’t Like Me Back… Why Doesn’t He Like Me Back?’

I watched a video yesterday by a relationship guru called Matthew Hussey. He's hilarious, and made some really good points about the entire notion of unrequited love. In short we are insane. As humans, we are crazy. Why does the notion of someone not wanting us or liking us back make us more attracted to … Continue reading Unrequited Love – ‘But He Doesn’t Like Me Back… Why Doesn’t He Like Me Back?’

‘Girls Crave Attention, Because They Are Needy’ – Well That’s Not Exactly True, Is It? Here’s Why…

So this is a point that really needs to be addressed. For two reasons. One because it’s pretty much a go to response for Rocco, and half the guys I speak to, and two, because I recently came across as being needy… and borderline crazy, but that wasn’t exactly my intention… I recently read a … Continue reading ‘Girls Crave Attention, Because They Are Needy’ – Well That’s Not Exactly True, Is It? Here’s Why…

Can Anyone Share The Dating Handbook With Me Please, I Never Got My Copy…

Dating. It's fun right? But confusing as hell. Now of course whenever I write about dating, I've got to involve Maverick. As he's selflessly assumed the role of Casanova, love guru and all round Demi-god of courting, not to mention that he's my right hand, he's my go to (ah, Drake, you #lyricbae) on things … Continue reading Can Anyone Share The Dating Handbook With Me Please, I Never Got My Copy…

Internet dating: Making You A Mermaid With A Great Humerus Apparently…

So it's been a little quiet on the dating front recently, so as any 'normal' - a term I use loosely, cause I am anything but - 21st century twenty-something Londoner, I thought it wise to once again get back into online dating. Dabbling as ever, I re-downloaded Tinder and thought I'd also switch it … Continue reading Internet dating: Making You A Mermaid With A Great Humerus Apparently…

We Don’t Talk Anymore… Cause All We Do Is WhatsApp And Snapchat…

Maverick and I were talking - as we often do - about the gloriousness of dating within the 21st century. When I say gloriousness, what I mean is full on nightmare on disaster street. Now, both of us being in our late twenties have dated a bit, and have come to learn how people behave. … Continue reading We Don’t Talk Anymore… Cause All We Do Is WhatsApp And Snapchat…