‘Boy, Man Up’ – Know this, you are not alone. I understand you – I am just like you…

A few weeks ago I focused on an aspect of mental health and social pressures faced by girls. Inspired by ‘Most Girls – a song by Hailee Steinfeld, it sparked a conversation about how attitudes towards this topic need to change. However focusing on girls, is only on chapter of a very intricate story… Unfortunately … Continue reading ‘Boy, Man Up’ – Know this, you are not alone. I understand you – I am just like you…

They do still exist you know, the decent ones I mean, but ladies, we aren’t entirely blameless either…

The blog I posted last week, while not anything to do with dating and relationships, surprisingly got a lot of traffic - marginal humble brag, yes I know - however it also sent a lot of people to a few of the dating and relationships posts, and onto contacting me about how they were being … Continue reading They do still exist you know, the decent ones I mean, but ladies, we aren’t entirely blameless either…

Thank you Mr Uber driver, for commenting on the size of my body – and not in a good way… 

I went out Friday night. Partying the night away, my friends and I were out until the wee small hours of the morning, which is pretty standard for us on a night out. Cut to home-time, and its time to order an Uber (after a trip to McDonald's - obviously). I catch my Uber, but … Continue reading Thank you Mr Uber driver, for commenting on the size of my body – and not in a good way… 

‘Play the game, girl’, he said. ‘Cause he’s playing with you…’

Dating in the 21st century sucks. It's awful. It's lengthy, problematic and is becoming as cut-throat as the U.K. Job market... It's all a game. A game of who cares less. Care less and you win. Show interest and you will lose. Every time... Social media makes people overly accessible and too easy to both … Continue reading ‘Play the game, girl’, he said. ‘Cause he’s playing with you…’

Unrequited love – ‘But he doesn’t like me back… Why doesn’t he like me back?’

I watched a video yesterday by a relationship guru called Matthew Hussey. He's hilarious, and made some really good points about the entire notion of unrequited love. In short we are insane. As humans, we are crazy. Why does the notion of someone not wanting us or liking us back make us more attracted to … Continue reading Unrequited love – ‘But he doesn’t like me back… Why doesn’t he like me back?’